Introduction to Chumplady

Let's dive into the details surrounding Chumplady. What advice would you give a new chump knowning what you know now? We heard from many listeners who had hard-won ...

Chumplady Comprehensive Overview

It's a common manipulation tactic for unfaithful partners to lead with self pity. Hey, their infidelity was hard on them too. Actually ... Regina DeMeo a top Maryland divorce attorney interviews Tracy Schorn, author of "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life," who also ... A woman calls in whose husband of 30 years walked out on her before Xmas -- after his mistress gave him an ultimatum.

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Summary & Highlights for Chumplady

  • Sarah and I are back after our hiatus to discuss your ex's cringey selfies. The fish. The dick pics. The ones where you're cropped ...
  • Tracy and Sarah discuss the common, if depressing, problem of forgiveness and multiple D-Days. What does forgiveness mean?
  • Guest cohost Jenny aka The Happy Hausfrau blogger and Tracy discuss the Bezo wedding extravangaza and what happens ...
  • There was so much stupid, enough to make a second podcast of submissions. All the dimwitted things people in affairs say to ...
  • With the recent buzz about Chump Nation in the New Yorker and the Cut, Tracy takes on the haters. Consider it a teaching ...

That wraps up our extensive overview of Chumplady.

Recent Articles

Aunties on the Bench: Advice from Chumps to the Newly Betrayed

Aunties on the Bench: Advice from Chumps to the Newly Betrayed

What advice would you give a new chump knowning what you know now? We heard from many listeners who had hard-won ...

June 13, 2026
116. The Most Self-Pitying Messages from Cheaters

116. The Most Self-Pitying Messages from Cheaters

It's a common manipulation tactic for unfaithful partners to lead with self pity. Hey, their infidelity was hard on them too. Actually ...

June 13, 2026
Tracy Schorn, aka "Chumplady" Shares Tips For Moving On After Discovering An Affair

Tracy Schorn, aka "Chumplady" Shares Tips For Moving On After Discovering An Affair

Regina DeMeo a top Maryland divorce attorney interviews Tracy Schorn, author of "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life," who also ...

June 13, 2026
Nice or Nasty? Or How Could I Have Been So Wrong About This Person?

Nice or Nasty? Or How Could I Have Been So Wrong About This Person?

A woman calls in whose husband of 30 years walked out on her before Xmas -- after his mistress gave him an ultimatum.

June 13, 2026
111. Discovering Your Cheater's Selfies

111. Discovering Your Cheater's Selfies

Sarah and I are back after our hiatus to discuss your ex's cringey selfies. The fish. The dick pics. The ones where you're cropped ...

June 13, 2026
What If You Forgive a Cheater and They Do It Again?

What If You Forgive a Cheater and They Do It Again?

Tracy and Sarah discuss the common, if depressing, problem of forgiveness and multiple D-Days. What does forgiveness mean?

June 13, 2026
96. When Affair Partners Marry

96. When Affair Partners Marry

Guest cohost Jenny aka The Happy Hausfrau blogger and Tracy discuss the Bezo wedding extravangaza and what happens ...

June 13, 2026
121. Yet More Stupid Things Affair Partners Say

121. Yet More Stupid Things Affair Partners Say

There was so much stupid, enough to make a second podcast of submissions. All the dimwitted things people in affairs say to ...

June 13, 2026
Cheating Tropes and How to Defang Them

Cheating Tropes and How to Defang Them

With the recent buzz about Chump Nation in the New Yorker and the Cut, Tracy takes on the haters. Consider it a teaching ...

June 13, 2026
64. 10 Ways to Cope When Jerks Win

64. 10 Ways to Cope When Jerks Win

Tracy, as

June 13, 2026
122. Chump Lady Answers Your Voicemails

122. Chump Lady Answers Your Voicemails

In this episode, Tracy responds to your miscellaneous voicemails. A caller wishes to "put the final nail in the coffin" on the ...

June 13, 2026
ChumpLady AMA

ChumpLady AMA

Tracy Schorn, author of "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The

June 13, 2026
71. Why Can't I Leave Him?

71. Why Can't I Leave Him?

Tracy responds to a woman, Beth, who writes in to say she can't seem to leave her partner even though she's deeply unhappy.

June 13, 2026